You were handed a script too. Help her rewrite hers.
The revolution of Her needs everyone at the table. No blame, no lecture. Just honest things to know, what to say, what to skip, and one small thing to do this week. Help Her take back the crown.
Dads of daughters
She learns what she's worth from how you treat her.
Worth knowing
- Girls start hearing "be nice, be quiet, be small" before age 7.
- Many girls get their first period around 12, and most say they felt embarrassed or unprepared.
Try saying
- "Your ideas matter. Say them louder."
- "Periods are normal. What do you need? I'll grab it."
Skip
- "Don't be bossy."
- Leaving the room when bodies come up.
This week: This week, ask her opinion first at dinner, and really listen.
Partners and husbands
This chapter isn't happening to you. It's happening with you.
Worth knowing
- Perimenopause can start in her late 30s or 40s and last years. Sleep, mood, focus and body temperature can all shift.
- Most women say no one prepared them. Many say their partner didn't understand.
Try saying
- "What's been hardest lately? I just want to listen."
- "What would make this week easier for you?"
Skip
- Hot-flash jokes.
- "Is it that time again?"
- Trying to fix it when she wants to be heard.
This week: Take one thing off her list this week without being asked.
Sons of aging moms
She was a whole person before she was Mom. She still is.
Worth knowing
- Women over 50 often say they feel invisible.
- Older women are the ones most likely to be caring for everyone else.
Try saying
- "What did you want to be when you were my age?"
- "What do you still want to do?"
Skip
- "You're too old for that."
- Only calling when you need something.
This week: Call her this week and ask one question about her life, not yours.
Coworkers and leaders
Backing her up at work is the easiest revolution there is.
Worth knowing
- Women are interrupted more often in meetings.
- Women are more often called "emotional" or "abrasive" for the same behavior praised in men.
Try saying
- "Let her finish."
- "That was her idea. Let's build on it."
Skip
- Calling a strong opinion "emotional."
- Leaving her to take the notes by default.
This week: In your next meeting, credit a woman's idea out loud, by name.
Talk to Her
Thirty minutes to finally know what to say. Listen in the car or at the gym. No lectures, no blame.
- • Six 5-minute audio lessons: listening, perimenopause and menopause, dads and first periods, sons and aging moms, backing her up at work
- • A "say this, not that" card after every lesson
- • A 7-day challenge to put it into practice
- • Plus the printable Talk to Her scripts for partners, dads and sons
$29 one-time · 14-day refund
Sample script · Partners
"I've noticed you're not sleeping well. I don't want to guess. What's it been like for you?"
Listen for: what she needs, not what you'd fix.
Don't say: "It's probably just hormones."
All six audio lessons (AI voice), the cards and the challenge unlock the moment you buy.
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